unhappy1993 / Dec 22 2009 10.15

Hello,

           I can see your angry and upset the way your dad is been towards you . Have you tryed talking to your dad about how you feel or tried to write a note for him explaing how you feel , or is there another person in the house such as your mum who you could talk to .

Hope this helps , Take Care

xx

loobylooxxx / Dec 27 2009 21.57

unhappy 1993, u seem very good at giving advice could you help me?? i love my dad but don't see him 'cause he is married to a ##### he comes to my driveway(no further) to pick up my brother so i see him then to say hi but i only go out to say hi if 'she' isn't there or her 2 boys, he won't see me properly like take me out ,or i can't go round his or see him with out 'her' being therew because he thinks it will make us a better family i understand that but i won't see him  ever, how can i see him without 'her'????xxx

unhappy1993 / Dec 28 2009 12.56

Hello loobylooxxx Thank you for your message and your kind words . Sorry to hear your going through a hard time att the moment my advice about this would be if you have your dads mobile nummber you could always send him a text or give him a call and ask him to meet up with you but tell him you just want it to be you two  and no one else and  i really need to see and talk to you . Also your dad needs to know how you feel . Another idea would be is to sit down with his wife and you and your dad and tell them both what you would like tell them that you would like just to spend time with your dad because you miss him and you dont see him much maybe they  both will come up with arragement where u see your dad 2 days a week or you sleep at your dads for the weekend that way your seeing your dad and spending time with him .

Hope this helps , Here if u want to talk about this anymore! 

Lovesandhuggsforyou

Talk soon

xxxxx