unhappy1993 / Dec 24 2009 15.23

Hello sorry to hear about your losses it must be tough time for you having to cope with this .  Have you tryed talking to someone about this and how your feeling this may be a good idea so you dont have to bottle it all up inside if this was me i would talk to my freinds and parents and teacher to help me cope with the losses and they may provide you coucelling also to help you and find ways for you to cope what has happend,

Your not alone , stay strong

here if u want to talk more , good luck xx

SomethingCrazy / Dec 26 2009 23.30

Honey, this sounds so horrible for you. I guess, and this is going to sound cliche, that life is destined to be hard. It really is one obstacle after another.

Do you talk to anybody about how you feel? Often someone lending an ear can help you rationalise feelings and ease the pain you feel a little. It might be an idea to write it down and hand it to someone, or just tell them.

How did you get over your Grandad's death? Sometimes it is nice to buy/make/get something that they liked and go somewhere they liked and remember all the good times. Just think about all the things they would be advising you and how they would react. That can help.

Pets dying are always hard. When my dog was put down we went and bought a cat literally the day after because I couldn't cope with not having the dog around. My cat pulled me through that and I guess, helped me grieve. You could do something like that?

Take care xx

Concerned / Dec 30 2009 2.50

heyyy. i know this my sound kinda cheesey but things happen for a reason. if one door close( your loses) then another door must open something good with happen soon

Hope that helps X