PinkLaptop / Jan 02 2010 10.43

 Hey I think i get how you are feeling because once i was invited to a boys house and he asked me out when he said the words my head kept saying is this a dream but when he asked me out i said  maybe.This boy was very popular and he did not have the best rep with girls. The next day I said yes but he just said I don't love you any more.

 None of my friends believed me they all said I was lying me and this boy have not liked each other ever since until he has started flirting with me I have ignored it.

 What I say if this boy really likes you then he will come back if he does not then he is not the right guy but don't ' be depressed talk to someone if you really want to.

 And if you don't want to take my advice guys are just not worth getting depressed about even at 11 your a kid enjoy your life instead of getting depressed about guys!

PS: hope this helps

bunnyhop / Jan 02 2010 11.06

I know how you feel, but why are you always sad? Is there no reason [perhaps the illness depression] or is this because of your ex?

Because I know you won't want to be affected by your age- but eleven? You're still a child. I am thirteen and I'm not ready for boys yet. I can't stop you but you should be thinking about having  fun more than boys. Boys your age possibly are too immature to be your dream boyfriend, so it isn't your fault.

Have you told anyone about how you feel? I know it must be hard, but maybe you can see your doctor if you feel depressed for no reason

aannaa / Jan 02 2010 21.49

Im 12 and i  felt the same way when i was 11, and i still do now. you need to forget about your ex, there are plenty other boys that u will fancy and that will fancy u. Try and talk to your parents/parent or sibling/siblings before bed. In bed, u tend to think about things more as theres nothing else to do. Try not to worry, and if theres something that suddenly comes into your head that your worrying about for the next day, quikly write it down and what u can do. I keep  sulutions list, where i write down sulutions to all my worrys, if ur stuck for ideas ask ur mum/dad. I find that the more i tell my self im depressed, the more i am. so try and think abouts good things, but do talk to sombody. When i was 11 there was so much going on ( moving to secondary school, growing up ect) that its easy to loose it and get paniked and upset. stay cool and keep a diary, it really helps. You write down any questions in ur diary and then maby ask/show your mum/dad?

i hope this helps. ino what u r going through; please comment on my  worrie(depressed section-aannaa) thanks, i hope u feel better x