unhappy1993 / Jan 10 2010 13.11

Hello there i know how you feel . It is fine to cry :) . When you cry its not a sighn of weekness at all your just letting them strong emotions out  its good to have a cry everyone needs to have a cry at some time in there life dont  think you are been week because you are not week at all your going through alot at the moment . Its up to you if you feel that you want to cry when your nan dies but dont bottle them emotions up it will make you worse you have to let them out .

Have you spoken to someone about how you feel such as a parent , gp , or a teacher this can help take some of the pressure of you ?

Here if u want to talk more or you need more advice

LovesAndHuggs

Stay Strong

Talk Soon

xxxx

bunnyhop / Jan 11 2010 14.50

Aww *hugs*

You know, crying is anything but weak. Showing you're not afraid to cry, by crying - is strong! The only reason you might want to cry alone is that when you cry it make others feel worse, but if you want to you can cry or you can cry alone in your room. It's not a good idea to bottle things up as crying helps.

To answer your first question, yes, you will probably feel worse if you don't cry - I'm sorry. You and your family - and your nan must be having a tough time at the moment. Maybe try not to cry in front of your ann - I mean let her know she's loved, but if she sees you cry it might upset her.

Try talking to childline. If you can't by phone, try the 1-2-1 chat. At first I din't think it was very helpful but someone I spoke to yesterday kind of helped me not feel alone. If you don't want to I can talk to them for you.

Let us know how it goes