bunnyhop / Dec 30 2009 12.44

 

Hey. I'm so sorry, first of all- I know what you mean, so many things, it's like you can't come out. And I'm still there, in a hole, but I'll try.

I also have been bullied, and am still, but not severely. I am friendless at the moment, and not respected. If you are repsected though, it's easy to make friends who will help you through the bullying, tell someone or stick up for you if you can't. I don't know if you do have any friends, but if not, try complimenting people and asking if you can sit with them- try the nicest girls. But then, I really don't know. Okay, I just read more, and the people at school are useless? Still, if you hang round with friends, even if you're not that close, the bullies should leave you alone more. Is it physical or emotional? Surely teachers can put a stop to physical bullying anyhow, or a school counsellor, if you can tell them. You can always go to a school library if you want to, to get away from it. I'm really sorry I'm just rambling uselessly and I'm not much help. About being bisexual- you don't necassarily know that- it could be a phase. I'm pretty sure it's against my religion so I can't really say much on that, but I hope you get through it somehow...

Have you tried visiting a doctor? You don't have to go with anyone, and I'm pretty sure they'll keep it confidential for you. About the multiple personality disorder. Then, they could also set you up for counselling to help you get through what it it. Please, please, don't self-harm. I tried it once, and then I thought. No. I hadn't cut enough to make it really hurt, and I'd need a lot to take my mind of it. Don't because, you are loved- your parents being overprotective is proof. *hugs* If you're upset, punch a pillow, hurt an object, but please not yourself. I'm sure you're a brilliant singer, as brilliant singers have a passion. Have your parents heard you sing? Maybe making up your own songs about how you feel might help. I don't think there is any reason to make fun of you, you seem intelligent. Please reply to this.

Sorry to be of such little help, I really hope things improve for you

:)

annieannie-x / Jan 23 2010 11.24

Hello. I'm sorry, but I completely can relate, dw. I'm sorry to hear about the bullying, I've luckily never been bullied as such before, but It must be horrible. I advise you to talk to someone about this and put a stop to it, bullying can lead to suicide and I don't want that to happen to you, especially because you haven't done anything wrong.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE stop self harm! I used to do it, and I used to do it when I felt sad... and in the end I used to make myself feel like I was sad JUST so I could self harm. It's no good for you, honestly. Please please stop.

I also have a great interest in music, too. I sing, play guitar, piano and drums :) Why don't you try learning to play some instruments if you haven't already? And save up some money for singing lessons? That way you'll be really good at what you love and then maybe people will support you instead of upset you?

I hope you feel better soon. I really do. Take care.

- Annie. x

pancakes2000 / Jan 23 2010 15.55

 ok  people are stupid fact they don't ever get other people trust me i know now lisen stop SELF HARMING it won't solve anything this is the first step telling people (don't worry i'm on the first step to) one day u will get to the top maybe ask your mum and dad if you could move school if its that bad but remember if you do there will always be bullys in every school the key is knowing how to beat them  1. don't care wat people think of you its your life   2. who cares if they don't like singing you do 3. tell your mum and dad how you feel incloding how u feel about them 4. if you can't tell them tell someone at school(e.g teacher)

 

take care now and remember stop selfmarming 

please