IfOnlyTheyKnew / Nov 27 2009 20.36

hey,

:( i no wat it can b like wen ppl u fort u cud trust turn against u

as a girl iv noticed that guys are always having mini fights and hitting eachother and den being best frends the next time i see them..to me its just normal guy behaviur ...but if its reely emotionaly and/or phsyically hurting u den mayb u cud talk to this guy and tell him how u feel..if u dnt think dat dats an option then perhaps u cud talk to sum1 u can trust about it..sumtimes just talking about stuff can help.

i know wat u mean by u dnt want to tell ppl wats  hapening with ppl in ur year coz u dnt fink its fair to get them into a lot of trouble for sumthing they probably dnt even realise is affecting u

as for your sister...u shud tel ur parents about how she is behaving towards u and make sure she is punished because she is aware of what she is dooing to u.

let us no how u get on x

nicky15 / Nov 27 2009 21.58

hey, i know exactly how you feel, my sister had been hoe for half an hour earlier, and had already called me fat, an emo, lazy, a loner, stupid and loads of other nasty names! i cant take it any more and she does it in front of my mum too and my mum does try to sort it out but my sister is nasty to her too! i self harm and her comments are making me worse, also she is making my mum depressed so i am worrying about her too, so any advice would be helpful here too!

Gina123 / Dec 13 2009 20.08

My sister is like this too. Except she's older, she hits me and kicks me and slaps me and gets away with it. Luckily she doesn't go my school. I've cut myself before as well because I just couldn't take the arguments anymore. Your not alone at all. I don't want to tell teachers either but I've managed to tell one of my very best friends about my sister. I haven't got up the courage to tell ANYONE about cutting myself yet. I don't want to. It's personal to me.
Have you tried talking to your parents about it? Or how about going to see the school nurse in private?

I really hope things get better for you,
It's good to know I'm not alone either.
xxxxxxx

Missfay / Dec 19 2009 17.45

Hi

Mabe your sister is bulling you because she is sared so she just does it too because she is sraced

fay

Kay1990 / Dec 28 2009 23.12

So what if her sister is scared she should not have done that to her, if my sister was been bullied anywhere i would tell some one not just bully her because im scared

Becky8924 / Dec 29 2009 1.16

Heey,

My sister does this aswell.. accept shes 2 years older and is a black belt in karate.. shes told me to go die many times and it hurts me really deeply so i self harmed for a bit.. Shes stronger than my mum and they often get in arguments which my sister turns into violence when she gets so angry. It scares me sometimes as my sisters stronger than my mum but i hope someday she will grow up a bit and realise whats shes done and learn to take responsibility for her own actions :S

Marianx / Dec 29 2009 16.41

I know what it feels,girl. I have glasses too and I get bulied because of that. Just pray and try to stop self harming yourself, It won't help, trust me.

Hope this helps

 

-Mx

 

 

babiigirl / Jan 15 2010 12.11

I have been bullyed ever since i can remember. People called me names and used to push me over. once i was told that no body wanted me and i belived them. Now i relise it was really stupid to belive them and i am living a happy live with a best friend and i go to a successfull school. i ignore the name calling and every thing if you are going though this problem i would do the same.