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    Sunshine-Girl / Jan 16 2010 16.09

    I am in a difficult position. until a few moths ago, i was confident and happy in life- until I started getting bullied for my hair colour. At a youth club I (used to) go to, there were boys and girls there who were 2 years below me, and who bullied me both physically, verbally and emotionally. Names such as "ginger" and "ugly were just two of the horrendous names they would call me. However, things really came to a point the other week, when they were pushing me, and trying to force sweet wrappers into my mouth. I found the experience unbelievable, and I have no plan to return. However, i have lost my 'best friend' (who goes toa different school) as a consequence. She could not understand that these people were bullying me, and so she chose her side and started laughing with them. Since then, she has called my decision to end our friendhsip pathetic and stupid- but she doesn't understand what it is like. what should I do? Should I forgive her? or should i realise that this is the end of the road, and focus on y other best friends at school? Thank you for your help.

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    Here2Help / Nov 20 2009 18.06

    Hiyaa ;]
    Im Eimear.
    Thats such a sad story. Your best friend just bailed on you. Shes not a friend..! Focus on your other friends. They will actually stand up for you.
    Being bullied because your ginger is ridiculous! I know a girl and shes beautiful AND ginger ;]
    Dont let those bullys bring you down. NEVER go to that youth club again.
    Plz Plz PLZ tell a trusted adult !
    Hope I Helped. Eimear x

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    Charmed404 / Jan 16 2010 16.09

    I'm not in anyway an expert but i would defo say dont go to that club aggain and as for the friend thing: It depands how close you were and whether you still want to be her friend as different ppl will want different things. If i were you though if this person is making you feel like that then i wouldnt really want to be friends with them and they obviously derent a true friend if they put you down like that. I would try and find someone  else or a whole group of ppl who wont judge you by your hair colour and will give you a shoulder to cry on if it happens again. oh and plus if your 'friend' said those things about you ending the friendship it sounds like they are a bit dessperate for the friendship and are trying to hide it. The power is with you and its your time to step up and make the decision to still be friendly with her but just remember 2 wrongs dont make  a right. Hope this helps!!!  

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