Cinna / Oct 25 2009 10.28
I know you probably feel like its the worst time of the world, but it WILL get better.
This year I've had 3 family members die in 2 months, with 2 of the funerals in a week so I know how distressing and upsetting itt is. If you really feel like you can't got to the funeral, you shouldn't have to. However, I thought that would be best for me, then decided to go anyway. It was very upsetting, but I felt much better afterwards as it felt like I had said "goodbye" properly.
If you can, talk to a friend privately about how your feeling. They should be there for you throughout this sad time. Things DO get better though. I miss my Nan so much, but it was the best way for her to go (in her sleep), and I'm sure she's watching over me. I'm sure whoever your greiving for is watching over you too, so stay strong :) xxxxxxx