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I don t know what to do anymore.

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    simplymeg / Dec 12 2009 17.22

    My friend is 15, and he is being a stupid teenager and taking drugs. My friend, I'll call him 'bob', so 'Bob' only started a couple months ago,and as far as i've heard its just weed i think, but i'm really worried about him.

    I'm so worried that 'Bob' might move on to stronger drugs, and to be honest i've tried to talk him out of it but he won't listen to me. And it's breaking my heart thinking that he is out there damaging his life and health, just because his friends are doing it. It's not just a one off thing with him, he getting stoned more than twice a week.

    I don't want to just forget it, is there anything else i could do to pursuade him off them?

    x♥

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    lululucie96 / Dec 03 2009 16.40

    i have a similar problem with my friend!! i cant really give any advice as i am still trying to talk my friend out of it. all i can say is that if u r close enough 4 him to tell u this then u must have some ideas on what really upsets him. what i am trying to do is convince my 'bob' that she will regret it. sorry i cant give anyy better help. good luck tho xx

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    simplymeg / Dec 08 2009 18.37

    thanks for your little message,

    I've been trying to spend loads of time with him the past week or that, so he not near any bad influences, and i think he starting to see sence, and last weekend, i just told him how i felt, blerted out and felt like a right old fool, but i think he acturally listened, which would be a first for him.

    hopefully he will stop before christmas.

    Thanks again, and good luck with your friend x

     

     

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    TheElf / Dec 12 2009 17.22

    When I was taking cocaine everyone in my class found out. I wasn't the most popular person but we are a class together. Being 13 then (and when I posted this) meant that it shocked them a lot.

     

    Having everyone know meant I had more support from people but I also realised I'd been incredibly stupid. I thought of myself as a monster as people were treating me differently. Because of this it made me want to change.

     

    The other support that made me feel annoyed with myself was my girlfriend. I was getting very angry with mood swings etc and I thought I was going to hurt her. I split with her because of this. That gave me a target, stop and I can have her back! It also made me want to get that target done quickly so she didn't find someone else.

     

    I hope these experiences can help you in some way and good luck with everything,

    Jack

    PS. One thing NOT to try and get them to do is to talk to their family. Suggest it once but don't do it again because I am still not willing to do so. People find it difficult to do that sort of thing and if they don't want to and you keep trying to make them they will start to be annoyed by it and they may reject your support after that.

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