One of my best friends smoke and sometimes when we go out together when we go to our den she lets me have a couple of drags.

anyway one night we got really drunk and started smoking and dancing outside in our pjammas and took pictures and without realising we put the pictures up on facebook and i didnt know what I had done until monday at school when everyone was talking about it. (another reason for people to be on my back) i called my sister immediatly and told her to delete them so she did. all my friends said it was okay because not many people had saw them but I know they were lying to calm me down, My mum, dad, auntie, uncle and cousins had seen pictures of me drinking and smoking and now my dad wont let me see my friend anymore. he isnt angry at me because he thinks I got pressured into doing it but I didnt, my friend didnt even ask if i wanted to try smoking I just did IT WAS MY DECISION! My dad blames my friend and wont let me see her anymore, he says Im not aloud to be her friend anymore and I dont think its fair that he locks me in my own house unless im going to school or going out with the family.

Its not my friends fault because really she didnt do anything wrong. How do I get my dad to trust me again and let me see my friend again and how do i convince him that its not my friends fault and i chose to smoke?

i miss her because she was one of my best friends.

Please help!