Becky8924 / Dec 29 2009 1.08

It might be hard but i think the best way to solve it is to try to talk to her.. x

Gap / Dec 29 2009 4.54

My Mother was never an alcoholic but always got massive mood swings. She would often do the things you described above. I can't imagine how bad it feels everytime you see her pour herself a glass of whatever. Try talking more to your Dad about it. I can't really give advice, My Mother left me a few years ago. All i can say is that, she will in time be sorry for all the hurt she has caused you. Until then, please try and support her. Don't challenge her or tell her to stop. I know it sounds hard but it's something that she probably has to figure out. In the meantime, hard as it is, stay strong and keep going. If the worse gets to the worse, speak to a teacher or childline agent. This probably doesn't help much, but even if it does just a little. x

AlwaysHere / Jan 12 2010 14.58

Heya, If i was you i would just talk to your dad or go and stay wif a family member i know what it feels like to see a loved one drink theres selfs ablivious my dad is a acholic he used to beat me and my mum. butt in the end i couldnt cope and hit him round the head with a bottle. Butt thats not the point. Your mum will probly realise one day how much harm she is causing to her self and u, give it time. if you dont want to just get out of your house or go or go and stay wif a mate whilee u get your self round things, if things get voilent i would ring child linee.. or maybe tell someone if confidence whats been going on.. :) Sorry if im no help :) Butt the things im telling you iv done.. Hope everything turns out oki.. :) Love me. x

brm / Jan 25 2010 19.15

I havnt been through the same situation, but my nan was an alcoholic, and used to abuse my mum. i dont know to much about it so i cant really help that much. But i think the best things is to talk more to your dad about it and see what he thinks you can do. or even maybe talk to your mum wilst your with another member of your family. she may get angry if you decided to talk to her about it so to be safe its probably best you talk wilst someone else is around.

i hope things get better for you.

xx

pandaprincess24 / Jan 25 2010 19.56

Hi, pleased to meet you. :)

I'm sorry to hear about your mum. But don't worry, at least you know your safe, and that she will never pyshically hurt you. What i would do (Personally, you dont have to do this unless you want to), is wait untill she isn't drunk or having a hangover, as then it is very likely she'd be snapped out of her diffucult phrrase and then politely explain the situation and explain thats its upseting you. Then it is probbal that she'll try and stop her drinking habit.

Good luck! 

catx / Jan 26 2010 17.04

i think u should speek to child line. they'll know best. this could turn dangerous. if u really love ur mum u should call them, and they could help her too. plz tell some1! it will help. :) x

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