Across / May 08 2009 20.36

Hey Kaputt

I know your not keen on the idea but its best if you talk to someone about this. Maybe if you could sit down quietly with your mum one time and explain what's wrong or write her a letter if you dont want to talk face to face?

Or alternatively you could ring childline (the numbers at the top of the screen now ) its totally anonymous and they could advise you about what you should do.

I hope everything goes ok for you and your sister.
Across

colliee / May 08 2009 22.56

please please please tel sum1 if not for u for the sake of ur sister. I no exactly how u feel. My grandad was the same, he used to stroke my leg but to high up, put his hand down my trousers once, feel my boobs, ask me to lay down n spread my arms n legs, make comments, kissed me not in the way a grandad should kiss u n other stuff. I hated it m I tried to ignore it but because of that he Got worse n worse. Eventually I told my teacher n the police n social services made it so I dont have to c him. I had to protect my little sister n although I'm so messed up now n I dont feel much better now its stopped I just hope my sister is safe now, even though they still go over to c my nan n it makes me feel sick I think my parents will keep an eye on him n I dont think he's allowed near her on his own. Please tell sum1 he should not be doing this!

tigger-123 / Jul 05 2009 2.34

hi hunni

i had the same sort of thing off my grandad and the only thing i could tell you that might help is find someone you trust that is an adalt and talk to them about it and find out if there is any thing you can do to try and keep you little sister safe i know its embarrassing but you have does nuthing rong and its ok to feel the way you do about him, i think maybe you need to talk to your mum as she is getting funny about you not talkingto him if she knew what happen she might be able to help you with it i hope this helps you hun

good luck and be strong xx

Ida-Katrine / Jul 21 2009 23.34

i have told my mum something like this but in a letter.  i just wrote the facts and by each fact how it made me feel then on sunday when she helped me tidy my room, do the sheets on the bed etc.  i gave it to her just before i went to bed and said 'it's about (the person)'.  she read it at work the next day and we chatted about it when she came home.  it was much less embarassing than i expected, especially once we had been talking for a while.

i didn't think of a letter and thought it would be a bit weird but it can be easier to tell someone something in writing, that way when you talk to them you don't have to say anything about it and you can just talk about what you want to do :)

sophielyse1992 / Aug 24 2009 1.09

My step grandad has been touching me now for the last year .and a half  Ive not plucked up the confidence to tell anyone yet other than my ex bf he was so caring about it though and protective he kept me safe when we were together . Unfortunatly for me we arent now. But something i do know is that its wrong. I feel disgusted everytime it happens and even when its not. It really effects you and as much as it will split ur family up you have to do whats right for you there will be alot of pain caused but its the right thing to do . You say your worried for your sister so dont let her suffer like u have plz plz tell someone she is so young she deserves a childhood you missed out on yours just like i have xx

madmoo23 / Oct 17 2009 22.30

hun u need 2 stop him be4 he starts on ur sister, i know its hard but write it in a letter and hand it 2 some1 u trust, i was raped at the age of 13 and would never want that 2 happen 2 my sister  x

Alanaaaaaaa / Nov 27 2009 19.52

 You really need to tell someone! this is awful and shouldnt be happening, otherwise it may happen to your sister aswell as you i would tell someone before its too late! dont be afraid

iam sure your parents will understand and be so supportive for you!

hope ive helped and im sorry about what happend! :/

xxxxxxx

victoria1 / Nov 27 2009 22.12

 hi, i think you should tell you mum or even talk to your grandad and say what he is doing is inapropriate

SugarKiss / Dec 01 2009 17.20

I know it can be difficult but you need to speak to somebody about this, not just for you but for your sisters sake.Maybe talk to your mum and explain why you can't talk to him or even a teacher who ever you think could help you best.If your still not keen on the idea but want to make sure your Sister's ok i know its not nice but why not just ask her and maybe bring up on conversation with her on what does she do and granny & gramp's house and reassure her she can tell you anything if she confirms that yes he has touched her then at least then you know and you can make the desicion to speak to somebody about it.But don't worry, nobody will blame you or not listen what your grandad did was wrong and everybody knows that.Good Luck Hun.x

pineapplejelly / Dec 06 2009 22.34

Hello chick , you really need too tell your mum or even your school about this situation, it will be very hard but all you need is close friend too stick by you because i know what it's like as it happend too my bestfriend :/ but you really neeed too tell someone :/

 

Hope this helped Love Pineapplejelly09 xxx