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I dont know if what my grandad does is wrong but i dont like it

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    Ellii / Dec 22 2009 15.53

    My grandad doesnt come to see us often but when he does he always tells me im his favorite granchild and that im so beautiful. when I go out somewhere and where something nice he always whistles and says you lookk gorgeous/beautiful.

    when I was younger I used to hit my grandad and play fight with him but when i got older i realised he kept saying hit me harder and it scared me so i stopped. when he comes round he gets angry at me and always yells at me if i dont give him a hug and kiss. He says why dont you love me anymore and you dont hit me anymore i miss that. I hate it when he says things like that.

    Hes probably doing nothing wrong and my mind just thinks he is. the thing is I dont like him saying thing like that to me and i dont want to hurt or upset him if he really doesnt see what he is saying in that kind of way. Hes coming over for christmas and im scared that he is going to ruin my christmas.

    Please help! I dont know if he is abusing me or im just over reacting over nothing.

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    AmberP / Dec 17 2009 10.20

    Hey

    I don't know if this helps, but I hope it will.

    You should never feel uncomfortable in the presence of any family member, or anyone to that matter. Even if it isnt physical, if it is making you scared then it is wrong, and it needs to be stopped, your home is where you are supposed to feel safe not scared. Try to tell a parent/sibling or someone that can maybe look out or say something to your granddad, make sure you are not alone in a room with him. But well done for saying how you feel on here. You are not over reacting, if you feel uncomfortable then it isnt right.

    I hope this helps in some way, and that things improve for you!

    Merry Christmas!

    x x x

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    Ellii / Dec 17 2009 16.14

    Thankyouu but I cant talk to my family about anything. I tell my best friend everthing though, ive told her about my grandad and she just tells me to avoid him and phone her if we get into any awkward situations.

    Thankyouu anyway though and Merry Christmas to you too :)

    xoxo

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    lost-love / Dec 19 2009 12.41

    Like dont take this offensive or anything, but i think its a bit of both i think that your over reacting a bit and hes still treating you like your 4. I htink that you should tell him to stop it, even if its just simply saying can you stop saying that im beautifiul, you dont have to tell him that you think hes like sexualy abusing you if you no what  i mean.

    Havve a good chrismas! x

    Hope i helped x

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    Ellii / Dec 22 2009 15.53

    Thankyouu x Thats a big help thanks. Thats probably what it is. He just looks at me like im still his baby granchild and doesnt realise that ive grown up a bit. thankyouu it makes sence now.  =) xoxo

    Merry christmas to you too xoxo

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