What to do about my grandad??

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blondechrissie / Dec 28 2009 18.10
my grandad keeps touching my bumb, making sexual jokes in front of me, puts his hand up my back, he has put his arm up and played with my bra strap and has asked to see my boobs. He always looks down at them and always sits next to me whenever he comes to mine. Im terrified to be left alone with him. He has whispered stuff in my ear before and asks me to come visit him more.

Im not sure if its classed as abuse as he hasnt raped me but their is always that fear in my mind. I cant tell family as it will tear us all apart and hurt everyone. Why should i put them all through that maybe its better i put up with this.

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missawesome / Dec 28 2009 15.04
Hello, you have been very brave to come forward. Yes this is sexual abuse. You should tell someone, a teacher, family member anyone, if you think it is going to tear the family apart well try telling them not to get made at each other, also your guardians should have you're well being at first priority. If you are in a situation with him don't let him do anything, try and get someone to stop him, if no-one is there use self defence and then try to get help.

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Hope this helps!! xxx

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sad111 / Dec 28 2009 18.10
o.m.g really, yhu have been brave to come foward, yhu should nat put up with this it is wrong, he shudnt be counted as a graqndad to do this, try to tell him to stop and if he doesnt tell someone and get help huuni.

x x x

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