blue-hats-rule / Nov 13 2009 18.51

hey, so sorry to hear how your feelin, im in the same position where it feels like its not important and you have no one to help you. but dont worry, there are people out there who want to listen and want to help. im sure your parents havent forgotton, maybe they dont want to keep reminding you of what happened by bringing it up all the time, or maybe they are in denial and dont want to think about it. either way, im sure they havnt forgotten.

try bringing it up again and ask them to talk to you about it, they might feel more comfortable about it if they can ask you questions and get to know just how you are feeling.

if this doesnt work, try talking to another family member, or a close friend, or a trusted teacher. basically, anyone you can trust

good luck, always here! x

brooke123 / Dec 05 2009 18.46

Thankyou.

Btw. its me that wrote the post. just forgot my login.

xx

dreamgirl123 / Dec 13 2009 18.15

hey

i understand how you're feeling. i was sexually abused as well, and i know it hurts to see them all the time. you're not alone, its important for you to know that. there are loads of other people who have been through similar experiences to yours, and you're not alone in your pain.

parents sometimes find it hard to understand. i think sometimes they feel guilty for not protecting you, or they dont know how you're feeling so they dont know what to say to you. im sure they do care about it. parents do care, they just find it hard to tell u that.

its a hard thing to get over, it really is. sometimes it does feel like its never going to end, i understand that completely. and its okay to cry, its important to let it out. if u bottle all your emotions up you wont stop feeling it, they'll just build up and build up until you can't hold them any more. there is hope. one day in the future u will look back and be able to say you're okay, and its over. just hold onto that hope.

thinking of you x

 

Heretohelp22 / Dec 31 2009 3.36

helloo :)

first things first, im sorry to here about what has happened.. i cant imagine what u went through.. and to have lost support off people is dreadful. im a bit like you in the fact i was physically abused by my mum.. and i rang childline and sorted it out with my mum.. it was fine for a few days.. then she started emotionaly and mentally abusing me again (she's always done that too) but abused me about tellin school :/ and my family and school counciller have seemed to forgotten what i have been through.. they seem to forget that i get flashbacks, and i am scared. the only person who understands is my gran, and i am so lucky for that. are you sure you have NO ONE at all who can support you.. and help you get through this traumatic time/memory?

you are very brave for writing on here :) if no one supports you, childline will. i will... in a way :S

take care of yourself.. and please dont self harm again.. because where does that get you..? gets you no further. i'll tell you this, i took an overdose and my mum found out.. and it made things worse!!

please look after yourself

thinking of you

xxxx

luvleylully / Jan 01 2010 21.23

i was abusedd by a family member 2 so i know hw u feel bt i ddnt tell my parenst ur brave x