Should I Tell Her What Happend:S:S????

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    JenniferG131193 / Jan 03 2010 21.11

    last year my mothers bofriend used to beat her horribly, as in break her nose and lots of other bones on her body. i hated having to watch it every night of my life i really didnt like it, it was just so sad to watch. Anyways when my mum was out at work and everone else was out he put his hands all over me, he was much stronger than me, he used to do things to me, then after a year he raped me:(, and took my virginity:(:(:( i dont know wither i should tell my CAMHS worker because i am scared incase she will always just want to talk about it. I really dont know what to do,

    please help :S:S

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    Chris1234 / Nov 30 2009 10.19

    Don't just tell your support worker tell the police if he raped u!!!! Its very very very serious

    and against the law!!! You should tell some1 about it and tell your support worker that

    you don't wanna talk about it if it makes you upset but you've really gotta say sumthing to some1

    take care

    x

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    Organgrinder / Dec 01 2009 14.31

    You really should tell someone about it.

    You could tell your CAMHS worker about it but ask not to talk about it as you don't feel ready to, they should respect your decision not to want to, not everybody feels comfortable doing that (me included!!), it's perfectly normal.

     

    Good luck :)

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    pdavies / Dec 03 2009 12.08

    Hope you don't mind that I send through a message, but what this man did to you and your sister is very wrong and he has commited a criminal offence. You have been brave enough to come and post your message on the ChildLine boards so I will encourage you to speak to your CAMHS worker. This man has to be stopped.

    Take great care 

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    queenb97 / Dec 13 2009 14.18

    Hi,

    There's only one thing i have to say to you Tell someone! what this guy has done to you is against the law and absolutely disgusting. You tell your CAMHS worker hun or the POLICE!

    Good luck and b strong!

     

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    Heretohelp22 / Jan 03 2010 3.30

    omg, childline are right... YOU NEED TO TELL THE POLICE!

    i had a tear in my eye reading this.. this is breaking the law twice - rape and domestic violence! this is awful! u really need to tell the police!!! please! there's a rapist&beater on the loose :s

    take care darling, im soo sorry to hear this :(

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    LyricalMelody / Jan 03 2010 21.11

    I'd suggest telling her tbh.

    What he did was wrong. he should never have so much as layed a finger on either your mum or you.

    You should just come out and tell your CAMHS worker what he did and after telling her, if she tries to bring it up again, just say that you really dont want to talk about it and with any luck she'll respect your decision and leave you to it.

    Good luck anyway =)

     

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