Anon141 / Dec 26 2009 15.43

 i know what its like when your mother doesnt believe you. mine doesnt either- my cousin who's like 30-40 years old had been touching me in inapropriate ways. cant you talk to your step-dad about it? or someone else you're close to. maybe a teacher or friend?

i think its possible that your mother doesnt want to believe you because of the close relationship they have. its her husbands best mate. i dont really know what to tell you but im trying to help you out as best i can. 

i think that you shouldn't tell her about childline again until she realises whats been going on. cant you give evidence about it? did he send letter death threats or something?

but if none of this helps i think you are going to have to involve some other people like police or something for abusing you like this. if ur underage for anything sexual he could go to prison for exploiting you like that and for doing things that are wrong. 

i hope i helped you :)   good luck with whatever you chose to do.

confuzzled59 / Dec 27 2009 17.23

good advice there ^

you definately should tell someone e.g. a trusted teacher or adult or friends. You could also report him to the police because then they could get you away from him, him away from you and they could investigate the situation. also he might be doing it to others so you need to tell someone to protect other people.

be brave and remember it isn't your fault so you don't need to feel embarrassed. also don't tell your mum about the childline thing again coz then she'll ban you again and we can't help you.

good luck and stay brave and strong!!

lots of love

emz xxxx

caityxx / Jan 02 2010 2.29

i need to say that you are very brave to come forward.

if this guy is making you do stuff you are uncomfortable with, then i would advise you to tell your stepdad.your stepdad is there to protect you and he would probably stop being friends with this pervert

pancakes2000 / Jan 23 2010 15.38

 i'm really sorry about the whole thing maybe you could talk to someone at school about it maybe a teacher have you got any other family you could talk to like grandparents or something again i'm really sorry but at least your trying to do something about it     ok take care