mess / Jan 24 2010 20.02

hi blue hats,

i was sexually abused by my dad for years i am away from that now (living in foster care). im sorry to say that memories will NEVER go away but its how you deal with it that counts. talk to someone that understnds in your case it sounds like your mum will just explain whats going on in your head do not let this abuse ruin your life allow it to make you a better more understnding person.

you must never blame yourself, i dont know why i say that because i do to an extent but anyway if you imagine your best friend was to tell you she was being hurt would you say it was their fault?? no

good luck xx