rose1508 / Dec 05 2009 16.06

i feel for you because this happens to me too :( i am 14 and my dad is very aggressive and has anger management issues and last night he punched me in the chest and i couldnt breathe and it still hurts now. i know what you mean about people seeing your parents and family differently, i feel the same way. i wish i could give you a hug! i dont know what to do either :( it feels like there is nobody to tell. i have told my mum but she is scared of him too so she just goes along with his lies and keeps out of it. sorry i couldnt be much help to you but i just wanted to let you know that your not alone. love Rose x

lala01 / Jan 11 2010 20.26

hey

ur not alone, i no its not likemy mum really beats me but she kicks me and threatens to do stuff to me.

im a twin and she watches her do it to me. i know im not a perfect kid but i feel like no body cares about me.

i dont know what to do either but your situation seems worse then mine my advice is to get help talk to someone you really trust.

remember your not alone

lala xx

bubbles1153 / Jan 12 2010 22.48

hey

ask ur dad if he wants to go out for a meal and take a friend that u can trust, then mabye stay at ur friends house that night

you should just talk about how u feel, because u r in public nothing can kick off...without ppl knowing

 

manboy / Jan 25 2010 13.25

Hi I hope your ok at the moment. The best thing is to try and talk to someone. ( i know its whats always said, but it realy can help). I was beaten by my mum for 12 years and kept the majority of a secret. But telling people in the end, I wont lie, it was hard to, and I still love my mum, but it was the only way.

I now live with my dad, and I love my mum but rarely see her, but it means when I do she is really nice to me, as she hasnt the time to get stressed over silly things. I'm lucky in the sense I was able to go live with my dad (when i was 16) which is over 200 miles away from her.

You will find a way, which suits you best. maybe talk to a teacher or a friends parents who arent going to tell your dad. They can help with advice, and help start things getting better.

Its incredible how one person knowing can help. It may sound selfish, but you have to not think about buinesses etc, you have to think how you can feel. i struggle now to trust people and im 19 as i left it 12 years before i did anything.