TashM / Dec 31 2009 10.56

Hi dannii22

I understand how you feel my brother has been doing that to me ever since I was 8 saying like I'm worthless and useless and that I should just die.

Recently it became to much and I told school about it I wasn't sure if I was doing the right thing because he goes to the same school, but it helped and now even though we don't get on it is better than it used to be.

You have to remember that it isn't your fault and that the person doing it has a serious problem that they need help for, please don't blame yourself because it never helps and will make you feel worse.

Hope I helped

xxx

Heretohelp22 / Dec 31 2009 13.57

hello :)

thankyou very much for reading this and helping me. you have helped... i just get confused and when she screams in my face.. the rest of the world is blanked out (if u understand that :S)

thankyou, and im sorry to hear about you brother - im sure your not worthless :)

take care && thankyou xx

xdarlzx / Dec 31 2009 17.31

iiiyyyaaa danni22 x

Um ive been through the same as you,and I went to the police and the social services and ive been through court.And when somthing happens you dont know what to do,you feel like your in a courner and no one else is noticing what is happning.And I know how it feels when they blame you for somthing that isnt your fault.They know what they have done is bad so they try passing the blame on to you they try to make you feel like you brought it on yourself when you didnt.When your mom calls you somthing your not then in your head say im not the baddie you are,ive done nothing wrong.Cuz actually what your mom is calling you is what she is.

I hope this helps xxx

Heretohelp22 / Dec 31 2009 18.51

helloo :) thankyouu for that.. yes, your right.. she's loading what she is onto me to make her feel better :( ive never got police & social services in but i wish i had :( im fed up.. but they wont do anything now :(

 

yes, that did help, thankyouu very much :) and im sorry to hear that you've been through the same :(

 

take care xx

dreamer33 / Jan 26 2010 12.17

heyy x

i think dannie22 is right ,, your mum is just loading the life that she messed up onto you and it just isnt right!  you need to bring this up again with your school and make them understand how you feel x tell them exactly whta you told dannie 22 and please try and sort it out x people in your case need to be brought up more ,, just because the hiting has stopped you are still being abused emoionally and this is of the same hurt if not worse than being physically abused xx

remember this is anonamous so aytime you need to talk im here xxxx

dreamer x

keep on dreaming :) x

Heretohelp22 / Jan 27 2010 12.20

hello :)

thankyou for the reply :) yes, ive brought it up with school again but things got a bit twisted were they want to get mum involved :( but we've sorted that, and im just gonna talk to childline councillers :) i posted another message bored and showed that to school :S which was a mistake :S but anyway..

thankyou very much for rreplying and i hope ur ok :)

yes, that was my name but i changed it incase my mum comes on here and sees my name - she'll know is me lol

take care xxx